We all question ourselves, which means WE CARE.
Trust yourself, as much as I trust you. Whether you are on this journey alone, or whether you have support. You've got this! Reaching out for guidance and validation is a sign of strength, not weakness, Sweet Dreamers. Surround yourself with people who will support your choices and beliefs as a parent and feel your power. It's perfectly normal to not always have people agree with your choices and decisions; that's OK. Just stay strong, share knowledge (evidence-based is best), and know in your heart that your decisions are based on what is best for you and your baby.
Glinda isn't easy to get ahold of these days...why don't you try a doula instead?